Where do I start?

I have so many questions, and there is SO much information, it is overwhelming!

As a homeschooling mother of 6, with well over a decade of experience, I know a thing or two about homeschooling. My children range from 3-19, and have been almost exclusively homeschooled. For two years, we tried K-12 while continuing our homeschool program, so I know a little about that option too.


From homeschooling alone at home, in a community, online, and with an online public school, I have tried a lot of it. Here are a few tips I share when people are considering or just starting.


Tip #1 - Homeschooling takes about as long as homework


Many parents share they could never homeschool. If they are actually open to the idea, I share that they could and probably are. They just do it after school when everyone is tired and call it homework while I do it during the day when everyone is alert. Scratch what you think you know about how long it takes to teach your children. Kids are actively being taught in 1-4 hours a day based on their grade level. My rule of thumb is that if it takes longer than that, the material is too hard and the kids are struggling or it's too easy and the kids are bored. Learning should be like swimming. If you're drowning or floating, you aren't learning. You should be treading water or swimming laps. The real fun comes in when you decide how to spend the rest of the day!



Tip #2 - Homeschooling is more than academics

One of my first tips to new homeschoolers is to define education for yourself. What do you want your child to know when they leave your house? Would it include taxes, investing, basic car care, house maintenance, budgeting, managing anger, making friends, volunteering, homesteading, coding, or time management? It really is up to you and you can incorporate all of that into your curriculum.



Tip #3 - Homeschooling is personalized



Because your children are not the same, be prepared to use different programs for each child. I used 5 different reading methods to teach 5 out of 6 of my children to read. They each had different needs and I had to be willing to adjust. Number 6 is only 3, hopefully, one of the first five methods will work for her, but if not, I will accommodate. As homeschoolers, we cannot expect schools to treat and teach our children based on their needs and be unwilling to do the same.


Tip #4 - Developing a love of learning is key